Originally Posted by Deerstabber
I will probably get booed and hissed at for this but, I have to say it and its just my opinion. People that kill themselves are selfish. You should feel no remorse for that individual. They didnt think of anybodies feelings but there own. If they would have came and talked to you (their FRIEND) then you could have talked them out of it, But they didnt and know their gone poor them. Bye the way I had a friend take his own life.
They are also unwell in the head. No sane individual wants to kill themselves. Let us not forget that these people who attempt or succeed are not thinking logically, are not seeing the truth. I dont know how responsible for their actions they are.
They are ill, they dont want to be talked out of it, they dont want to know the truth.
If your friend avoided you, perhaps its precisely for the reason that he knew you would try and stop him.
Its because you were a friend, its because you cared...not a snub saying you didnt care enough, or that there was no trust. Quite the opposite I suspect.