Originally Posted by Maldonado136
im almost positive the show is scripted. i mean cmon. the first season was hilarious though and yeah i have to say that even though they refer to the men as tools, the women are tools as well and they proved it just by being on the show instead of ending the relationship. i think they secretly like being treated like crap. "you treat a girl like dirt, she'll stick to you like mud"
In a sad way, that's true. Unfortunately, there are a ton of broken marriages & broken homes out there, so many girls grow up without a father or (even worse) with a father who's abusive. As they get odler & develop emotionally, they begin to believe that there's something wrong with that which made Daddy leave/hit them/say mean things/etc. They basically become programmed to believe that they are so flawed that they don't deserve
any better than that. Then, when they meet Mr. Tool, he's everything their father was to them: distant, abusive, takes them for granted, etc., etc., etc. And all that the Tool has to do to keep her is to be niceonce every month or two. The girl's self-esteem is so low that they don't believe that they're worth even a single act of kindness, so the Tool seems like a knight, even if he is a "little rough around the edges".
The saddest thing about this is that if she's stupid & has a kid with him, it's only going to perpetuate the cycle.