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Old 02-28-2012, 10:54 PM
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I must get this off my chest. I don't have anyone to talk to about it but dating this girl has been nothing short of hurting my walk with God.

She's a nice person, but very secular and she's pulled me into things I don't/can't agree with and I've become weak. (My fault, not hers)

Tonight I plan to end the relationship, but I feel sad about it because I like her and she likes me and sadly, we work together which means I have to still see her around a lot.

Any advice, wisdom, counsel?
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Old 02-28-2012, 10:57 PM
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How serious is it? Like going to the movies every now n then or actually seeing each other out of work more than 2x a week?
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Old 02-28-2012, 11:17 PM
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i think you should still try and bring her to Christ ... you breaking up with her might show her you are turning your back on her ... if you truly believe, your will won't grow weaker, but probably stronger ....
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Old 02-29-2012, 02:25 AM
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How serious is it? Like going to the movies every now n then or actually seeing each other out of work more than 2x a week?
Not sure, good question ... we have a connection, but she is really jaded from prior relationships as well. I probably have not been a great witness to her either
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Old 02-29-2012, 02:25 AM
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i think you should still try and bring her to Christ ... you breaking up with her might show her you are turning your back on her ... if you truly believe, your will won't grow weaker, but probably stronger ....
You're right ... but I have to be honest with her too and I fear after tonight she won't all