That is pathetic. Someone at that library is trying to make a point to someone. I believe in talking to my children and explaining that just because some people do things does not make it right. I believe the same as Nate so I have an extra issue with it just because I don't agree with the nature of the books for young children. I think I would make a mention of it to someone at the private school to get their opinion. Would the private school let those books be displayed in their library? I would also not go back to that library.
I know it sounds a little drastic but some of my beliefs I will not bend on. I have different beliefs than others but don't push my beliefs on them. I don't agree with living a gay lifestyle but I'm also not going to want a "Gay is bad" book displayed in the library. There is a time and place for issues that are sensitive to many people.