Originally Posted by surveyorshawn
Court about my summer visitation with Benaiah was today. Really it didn't seem like court, because his mom sat out by the elevators, I sat in the courtroom by myself, and the lawyers talked to the judge in his chambers. Basically I got what I asked for with no resistance. I really don't get it. I don't get why we wasted our time and money when we could have communicated & easily solved the visitation schedule conflict. Oh well, at least we have a permanent schedule now, which is exactly what I wanted so we wouldn't have this arguing every year about when I get to have him. This was all so unnecessary.....
I'm so sorry. Eventually you may have to go for full custody of Ben. If/when that happens you will have all of this on record in your favor. Or his mom may just give up the fight and start behaving herself about this after being worn down to the point of moving on with her life. Either way, I hope it all calms down soon for you.