Who ever told you that you need a church for God to accept you is a blasted liar.
God wants us to be with believers he never specifies how. This forum could easily be an example of a church. I came to christ with the help of this forum and those who post here.
Do you have any specific questions you want answered? Please tell that person I said they are wrong and should really educate themselves further before trying to direct those seeking God.
The posts previous to mine are excellent examples brother. I'm available to talk to you whenever you need someone to listen. PM me and I'll try my best to help you. But take what people tell you with a grain of salt and definately look for yourself brother.